Resie on Mr. Cinco

Hello! I am Resie and I attended Mr. Ariem Cinco’s 2-week TOEFL Speaking class. When Mr. Cinco oriented us on what to expect in the class, I immediately felt the fear of taking another test because I was one of the many test takers who failed the speaking skill not only once.

As far as I can remember, I took 2 to 3 TOEFL tests in a span of 10 months and none of these exams reached the required score of 26 because during those exams I never failed to stutter and pause. For me, and I think that all of you will agree, that to be confident while giving a spoken response from tasks 1 through 6 is really, really difficult.

After the completion of the class, I was more than satisfied that he made a specialized program to all of his students. We performed various activities that improved not only our ability to have a more solid idea and most importantly to be more confident. I didn't have any idea that I could still improve what I already have.

I am thankful that our agency chose Mr. Cinco to share to us what he knows about the skill. His techniques in answering the questions have helped me pass my TOEFL with a perfect score!

Thanks Sir Ariem!

Apple on Mr. Cinco

 Hello…Apple here. I am one of those who failed the TOEFL exam not just once..BUT thrice! Moreover, that makes me fear taking the exam again. Thanks to Mr. Ariem Venezuela Cinco, wow what a name! Every time I hear his name, I always remember the first day I met him. He looked scary then and very tough. Then I realized and appreciated why he had to be like that. He just wanted to make sure that his efforts would bear the sweetest fruit.

My speaking skills have improved quite a lot since the day I had attended Mr. Cinco’s training. Though it was only a 2-week program, he really helped me build my confidence again and he helped me to trust “APPLE” in taking the TOEFL iBT. After the training, I felt motivated and I improved so much in 2 weeks time! In addition, within that span of time, I had known Mr. Cinco as a friendly and a softhearted person. He proved me wrong that not all first impression lasts…

He also keeps on reminding us “Even when things are difficult, we mustn’t lose hope.” That is why I appreciate so much the mentoring of Mr. Cinco. He has what you want in Cracking the TOEF iBT. He made me did it! I can say that I cracked the TOEFL exam and got a perfect score with Mr. Cinco’s magic. He offers the BEST training.

Now, he is not only a teacher for me, but also a friend worth keeping…

Thanks sir Ariem.

TOEFL WRITING

Here are some of the sample writing topics and sample introductions. 

1. People attend college or university for so many reasons:

Answer:

Reasons for people to attend college or university are innumerable and all these depend on one’s perspective. In fact these myriad of reasons serve as the motivation for one to pursue university education. In my opinion, most people are convinced that attending college or university serves as their threshold to the future. Specifically, the three most important motivations why people pursue a university degree are job opportunities, increased knowledge, and essential skills preparation for their future.

2. Parents are the best teachers.

Answer:

It is arguable to claim that parents are the best teachers. In fact, some if not most of them have not specialized in teaching. However, after considering various angles, I am convinced that despite their shortcomings, one can perceive and admit that parents are the best teachers. Why? They rally round their children to learn fundamental principles in life. They teach their children to become a good person. Also, they spiritually and materially guide their children to surmount difficulties.

3. The relationship between food preparation and lifestyle

Answer:

If there is one household chore which people tend to refrain, it is cooking. Interestingly, technological advancement has made food preparation far easier as to the fact that such activity can be done in a matter of few minutes. While a preponderance of people may oppose to this proposition, I am convinced that indeed easy food preparation has changed the way people live. In fact, this caters people the luxury of benefits such that it offers convenience in food preparation; food preparation today allows for more variety; and healthful eating is now easier than ever.

4. Not everything that is learned is contained in books. Compare and contrast knowledge gained from experience and from books. Which source is better?

Answer:

Books are precious resource in improving our knowledge; however, it is contentious to claim that everything we learn in life is scribbled in pages of compendium. As a matter of fact, there are many means and ways to discover and learn lessons and one of which is through our experiences. The knowledge we gain from the books we read and the knowledge we acquire from our experiences are not without differences especially in terms of practicality and retention. It is with these differences that I am personally torn as to which between the two is a better source of knowledge. Despite this plethora of convincing differences, I strongly believe that experiences are a better source of knowledge because they offer down-to-earth lessons which we can apply to our lives practically and the lessons from experiences are better retained in our memories.

5. Building a large factory in the community. Discuss the advantages and disadvantages. Do you oppose or support?

Answer:

Human civilization has indeed extended through a greater spectrum. Among the multifarious trademarks of industrial development, building infrastructure such as factories in the community has risen into prominence. Such progress has brought both a number of benefits and drawbacks to the community as a whole. This issue at hand of whether to support or oppose the plan of erecting a factory has been a prevalent topic for a serious debate. However, considering different opinions and pondering on points of contention, I personally agree that building a new factory is beneficial; hence, my support because of greater opportunities for economic, cultural, and industrial developments it caters.

6. If you could change one things about your hometown, what would you change and why?

Answer:

Instituting change in our society specifically in my hometown where people have become hard-wired to practices, idealism, and beliefs within their sphere of comfort seem a far-fetched idea. Nevertheless, if I could change one important thing in my homeland single-handedly, I would reform the mechanism of municipal authority specifically to level the bureaucratic procedures, to simplify complexities of legal system, and to ensure social order and discipline.

7. Influence of TV and movies on people’s behavior.

Answer:

Nowadays, television and movies have been the most popular medium of entertainment. Because of their overwhelming popularity, both have clearly radiated far-reaching effect on human lives, particularly, on human behavior. These effects in fact range from a discrete array of undeniable advantages and disadvantages in educational, health, and social well-being of an individual.

8. Television has destroyed communication among friends and family. Agree or disagree.

Answer:

Since its inception, the television as a medium has had enormously various influences and the most noted are the social aspects of it. Such claim; however, remains unchallenged in media theory since its instigation. On the contrary, there is much difference of opinion as to what those effects are, how serious the consequences are and if these effects are more or less evolutionary with human communication. Along with these claims of contention, I personally agree that television has in a way ruined interpersonal communication among friends and families especially that it promotes social surrogacy.

9. Some people live in a small town. Others live in a big city. Which place would you prefer to live in?

Answer:

Nowadays, it is indubitable that Diaspora from the hinterland to the urban areas has been a common fashion. This migration is attributed to a number of factors and that the choice of abode greatly depends on one’s lifestyle and the pace of life one wants to have. While some argue that living in a small town is good, I am inclined to believe that living in a big city is a better choice. Personally, I would prefer living in a big city instead of living in a small town. This preference is greatly motivated by the convenience it offers. After all, living in the urban area offers economic opportunities, easy accessibility to amenities of life, and entertainment.

10. When people succeed, it is because of hard work. Luck has nothing to do with success. Do you agree or disagree.

Answer:

Success is a relative literature and its definition is confined in one’s personal perspective alone. This relativity can be attributed to how an individual achieves it. However, I believe that success does not come easy to most of us. Furthermore, it does not arrive on a prescribed or predetermined schedule. It is a process with many steps on that road. While there are instances of overnight success when one moment of brilliance intersects with perfect timing and the big payoff comes, I am steadfast with my resolve that success is achieved through hard work combined with the power of action and a clear plan.

11. Universities should give the same amount of money to their students’ sports activities as they give to their university libraries. Agree or disagree.

Answer:

While education is aimed at developing the students’ well-being holistically by engaging them in both extra-curricular activities like sports and scholastic endeavors, there is still a disputation whether to allocate heftier budget for sports or the university libraries. I personally have partiality towards the preference to university libraries than sports because of my being a bookworm. However, it is because of my perspicacious analysis of the benefits that school libraries cater to students that keeps my resolve steadfast. Specifically, libraries serve three important purposes: libraries help students improve their academic performance, not everyone can afford books and all students can benefit from the collection of books, and physical libraries are adapting to cultural change, respectively.

SELF ACTUALIZATION

Self-actualization means emotional transformation. An individual transforms from fear to happiness, from shyness to assertiveness, from narrow-mindedness to open-mindedness, from comfort to courage. This assumes the clarity of perspective that allows you to see clearly what lies ahead or what lies outside the seeming limitations that scare you. (Thanks Dr. Dups)

There was nothing more painful and humiliating than the thought that I refused to learn once in my life. I refused because I wanted to show to people that I was perfect in my own ways and that I insisted my ways to them. I never took the courage to open myself to possibilities of positive change instead I embraced the status quo - the state where I felt so comfortable and convenient. It was only when I felt so uncomfortable inside the shell that cocooned me after all those years that I decided to go out, to break my ego, and to bruise my persona. It was only then I realized I had grown a thousand folds.

Indeed, a hermit crab cannot grow bigger unless he finds a bigger shell to shelter him. 

Progress is a painful process one has to go through. Progress is never attained through scholastic education alone but through self-assessment, scrutinizing oneself to every single bit of character which defines you as a person. It is indeed an excruciating course for one to take. It takes ones to be humble, not with the slight of being defensive. Remember that too much humility is pride. Try to locate that central source of pride in you. Being humble doesn’t mean being nice. Being too humble means being too proud of yourself. For one to grow, he or she should be ready to accept compliments and criticisms with grace and with the intention of reflecting through them. You being in my class means you are my subjects of scrutiny and so am I under yours. However, never have had I any intention of belittling someone who has not gone at par with my standards. I stand in front of your class everyday not because I want to show you I am over and above you- that I am a better person than you are, but because I have something to share that you need to learn.

Isn’t it unfair when I come to the class with all my heart and commitment while you sit half-hearted? It takes two to tango. However, I have never failed to remind myself to appreciate every bit of effort we put into this endeavor. But isn’t it more humiliating and offending when your appreciation is rejected? But I can’t take it against anyone else nor put the blame to anyone. After all, I did not come to be desirable.

Furthermore, learning means accepting the truth no matter what. Hence, learning requires one to be confident. I want you to take note of this: Incompetent people complain when things go wrong and wallow in their failure but competent people quickly find ways to make amends so not to make the same mistake again. Incompetent people self-destruct when confronted with reality but competent people build themselves into someone stronger. As a coach, I cannot sugarcoat things when they are unpleasant. I cannot make one feel good by not speaking my truth. I speak my truth because I cannot afford flattery. I speak my truth because I cannot stomach giving false hopes. My source of pride is my honesty. It is my resolve that only when we start to be truly honest that we free ourselves from the bondage of hypocrisy that impedes us from finding the truth about ourselves.  It is only when meaningful learning happens.

Finally, I cannot apologize for speaking my truth in the class because if I do it means I am sorry for being true. Not anyone can make me feel bad at myself just because I want to speak my truth about what has gone wrong-that what has deviated must be corrected. 

I am truly grateful you share with me your smiles, complaints, and tantrums.

NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INFERIOR WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT.

RH BILL

http://ph.news.yahoo.com/manilas-aquino-clashes-bishops-contraception-bill-125950385.html

RH BILL

by: Ariem Cinco

Whether or not RH Bill is passed into law, there will always be a tug-of-war between the pros and the antis and this issue will never die. Nonetheless, I am for RH Bill. It is my resolve to support the passage of the bill into law because of the following reasons:

1.     RH Bill does not condone nor promote promiscuity as claimed by all anti-RH.  Does it mean that if a person has condom in his or her wallet, it is tantamount to saying that the person is sexually active the very least or promiscuous at worst? I know some people who carry condoms distribute condoms but are not promiscuous. What does this imply; it’s neither the distribution of condoms nor the RH BILL that dictates a person’s will rather his own character, principles and conviction. From my careful observation, the claim of the anti-RH about promiscuity is an uninformed judgment of the scenario.  Why? They are only talking about their false expectations appearing real (FEAR). I fear not that our country will become a sanctuary of licentious people because I am confident that Filipinos have imbibed in them unwavering morality.

2.   RH Bill does not equate to abortion. Scientifically, abortion means any of various methods of terminating pregnancy or conception. With the emphasis on the termination, this means that abortion only happens after fertilization period. The use of contraceptive, condom - the most controversial among them, prevents fertilization to occur. Termination of pregnancy and prevention of pregnancy are two different phrases with different meanings.  

3.     RH Bill aims to educate individuals about informed options related to their reproductive well-being especially among women. The bill, as far as my understanding is concerned, is intended to promote the welfare of women and children. How aware are the anti-RH bill about the mortality rate among women and children, especially during birthing? While it is the state’s obligation to oversee and govern the affairs of the nation, it is the church responsibility to educate its followers about proper values so they become morally upright individuals. Where do we draw the line between political leadership and religious leadership, especially now that the church apparently and directly intervenes the affairs of the state?

4.     RH Bill is not created to mandate people to defy the moral standards of our society. I believe with conviction that the moral of a person, if and only if is strengthened through proper education, will neither be eroded nor will be corrupted by any of these laws.  Honestly, I am a Roman Catholic, I don’t hear the mass often but I can confidently say that I have set myself an acceptable moral standards compared to those who hypocritically attend church services yet they have rotten morals. There are atheists I know who show more concern and compassion to their neighbors and fellows than some of those I know who diligently serve the church.

5.      RH Bill is viewed as sure-fire measure to at least deter the rapidly surging population if not to totally solve all other problems of the country. While others claim that overpopulation is not a problem as seen in other countries like in China and India, I would like to remind everyone that such is never true in all cases. In the Philippine context, overpopulation is a threatening dilemma. It affects our society badly such that it causes crime rate to increase, prostitution, drug trafficking, human trafficking, hunger, and other societal banes continuously pervade. Are we not aware that there are a lot of homeless families and street children wandering around the metropolis? Or are we blindfolded for us not to discern this stark reality? Or do we really understand the true plight of the poor? Or maybe we just don’t care at all? How does this relate to the problem of overpopulation?

Despite my claim, I am no narrow-minded not to consider the counter-arguments.

1.    RH Bill can be a source of corruption. With or without RH Bill, there has already been corruption.               What does this imply? This only means that we Filipinos have not learned our lessons by           choosing our leaders shrewdly, by sharply discriminating the righteous and capacitated leaders             from those pseudo-leaders. This fear of corruption roots not from the bill but from ourselves.                 Why do I say so? I make this claim because if we really are that serious of eradicating corruption,   we should be vigilant as vanguards of all the affairs of the state and with how our government is         run by our political leaders. Do not contribute to the problem instead be a solution to the       problem.

2.    RH Bill will not solve the problems of the country. Definitely it won’t. Because the RH Bill is           designed to address specific problem - this is overpopulation and in turn results in more societal               problems. We cannot have a single solution tailored-fit to solve all existing quandary beset in our country.

Challenge to the ANTI-RH BILL, especially to the CHURCH.

1.       What do you propose to mitigate the problems which confront our country today? To the church, other than opposing to the passage of the RH Bill, what are your proposed measures to address problems of poverty, hunger, lack of education, high crime rate and overpopulation?

Just my two cents. Thank you. 

The Power to Succeed

by: Ariem Venezuela Cinco

Commencement Speech

This is dedicated to my family, my friends, my classmates, and my mentors.

March 29.2010

Distinguished guests, proud parents, friends, members of the faculty, academicians, honor students, the members of the graduating class.

Good morning. How is everyone? That’s good to hear. Do you know how I feel now? How I feel now is a bit ironic in my world. I always tell my students back in Manila not to be nervous when they deliver their presentation, but here I come…geez, nervous. Are you nervous too? I don’t think so. You’re bored. I know how it feels listening to boring speeches, so I promise not to make this speech long, just at least half of the 150-page book I am writing. Or maybe just as long as the repeaters have stayed in high school. Aside from boredom, I know you feel so excited to get your awards, medals, your lunch and party. But hey,listen up, you won’t graduate until I finish my speech.

When I was invited to speak in this occasion, I immediately said yes. Why me of all people? I did not finish school with honors. I am not rich. I am not famous. I am a failure. My life is no way exceptional and extraordinary except that my life brought me lessons which come with brilliance of pride and dignity. But why am I here? I am here because of YOU.

I believe that my presence today is more than just to deliver a speech. I am here with the fervent hope that I would somehow move you and influence you in the best way possibly I can. However, I am not here to insist on a definite course of action that which you shall take in the future. I am here to tell you NOT to be like me but to tell YOU to strive to be your own person and become better than anyone else without the reservation to grandstand others. I am glad to be here with you to share meaningful lessons in life I have learned and the driving forces that have shaped me who I am today and have brought me to where I am this very moment.

When I was in grade school, everything was nothing but a dream. As a child, I was a dreamer and hoped that one day my dreams would be translated into meaningful realities. My dreams were to get a college degree, to become a public speaker, and to fly on an airplane, and most importantly, to fulfill the real essence of a longer existence for me to touch other people’s lives. These dreams seemed too simple and ordinary to some but it didn’t matter to me at all. After all, it’s not how big or small your dreams are but it’s how you see your dreams come true in the future. Actually, my father wanted me to become a lawyer, my mother wanted me to become a broadcast journalist, my sisters wanted me to become a nurse, and ironically my brothers wanted me to become a beautician ( I am kidding). Yet, I had my own dream for myself – I wanted to become a doctor. The truth is not everything we want in life happen the way we want them to happen. In short, I did not finish medicine but still I obtained a degree somewhat related to the field of science and medicine. Since I wanted to become a doctor, I have now an MDPhd degree (Mukhang doctor, pero hindi doctor). On a serious note, I finished Bachelor in Secondary Education Major in Biology and Minor in Mathematics. It is your faith in your dreams that will bring you to your rightful place in time. All these dreams have come true. What I am trying to point out to you young graduates and parents is that it is important that you have the desire to achieve something, the aspirations that would motivate you to take life-changing plans and actions to make things happen for the better. Remember that life without a plan is like a withered leaf, it flies just anywhere the wind blows it, and it lacks direction. However, life with a plan is like a river, it goes through its course and flows out to sea. To you graduates, do not be afraid to dream for dreaming is the only thing we could do for free. Do not be afraid to dream big dreams. The famous cliché goes: Dream, Believe, and Survive. Because when you dream, you would achieve something. This is the first power – the power of the dream.

However, it doesn’t end in dreaming alone. The best way to accomplish your dreams is to keep yourselves awake. It is very important that you choose to take the necessary actions towards the realization of your dreams. Let’s look at some practical circumstances for you to understand my point. All that you are today is a product of your choices and what you will be in the future is determined by the choices you make today. Now make a choice! Who among you here choose to be rich like Manny Pacquaio? Then aspire to be a boxer! On a serious note, he chooses to fight because it is his way for him to give his family a very good life. If only he had the courage to take the chances to finish school, he wouldn't have resorted to engage in a deadly sport. However, it doesn’t matter who he was before. What matter are his choices and the kind of life he has today. I know how hard it is to make choices especially when it seems there is nothing to pick at all. To further simplify my point, none of our teachers would have become teachers without them attending school. You won’t be here today to receive your diploma, if you did not study to pass all your subjects. None of you would be repeaters if only you took your studies seriously. But there is one thing I know that happened in my life without me doing something. Do you want to know what it is? When I was born cute. Kidding again.

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. There is no short-cut to the pinnacle of success. The best of luck and opportunities come to those who work for these opportunities to come knocking their doors. Opportunities are all around us, ready to be made. I want to tell you that I have had the share of great and wonderful opportunities, in fact, I have been invited (I did not apply) to go to Seoul, Korea, Beijing and Shanghai, China to teach English and the latest is in Amsterdam, Netherlands to be a Youth Program Coordinator. These opportunities have come along not because I am lucky but because I worked hard to be recognized by the international community. However, I did not choose to leave to enrich myself, instead I chose to stay to serve my fellowmen, to help them realize their ambitions. Had I chosen to leave, I wouldn't have had the opportunity to help many Filipinos who also dream of getting bigger opportunities for greener pasture abroad. If you think I have lost opportunities, yes, I have…the opportunity to make myself rich, but thinking how many lives have I helped transform, makes me feel richer even in the absence of financial reward. I am not rich because of my action. I am not rich because of my choice. And you can be rich if you choose to be. This is the power of choice and action.

Do I consider myself successful? Yes, I do. Success is not measured by how much wealth you have amassed. Success is measured by how much of you, you have shared with others. Success is very much relative and it depends on who defines it. But what I am sure of, the more successful you are, the more relatives you have. Anyway, success is actually 99% failure. Look at Manny Pacquaio, Lito Lapid, Erap Estrada, to name a few. They are all famous and successful (maybe). I am not saying that you would waste your time in school trying to finish your studies but look at them, they are huge celebrities. But that’s not the point. I want to tell you that they are successful because they failed. Having not finished school is a failure to them. Yet, they learned lessons from failure....

Life is not a checklist of achievements and acquaintances but a long line of failure and tribulation. Life is difficult and complicated where failure is certainly inevitable. If you want to live a life without failure, you need to be extra cautious, and in the end you will realize you have not lived at all. In all actions we take always expect that mistakes would happen and failure would come along. If you think you failed your math, just think your math teacher forgot to use a calculator in computing your grade. If you failed your English, remember that English teachers are not made to compute grades and they asked for the help of the math teacher who forgot to use a calculator. Remember it is important that we experience failure for us to remain humble and grounded. Failure is nothing but a temporary setback that if taken positively would actually help us see bigger opportunities to change ourselves for the better. It is not the failure that matters, but the courage and strength to stand up after the fall. I would want to see all of you finish your studies but the fact is not all of you would actually finish school. I am not saying that you lose hope. Some of you are your parents and teachers greatest achievement and some of you are the greatest failure and disappointment. I myself is a disappointment to my parents – I have failed them as a son, and now I am here again disappointing them because I am not staying longer than they wish me to be around. But life goes on for me. Failure is one of the reasons why I keep moving on. Mistakes are my guiding light to make my life and other lives better. Remember to learn from mistakes. Learn from the lessons of experience. This is the power of failure.

Failure is a staggering challenge. Also, poverty would be viewed as an impediment to the realization of your dreams. I would agree with you that it is hard to finish school if you do not have the resources to do so. I am not stranger to this situation. I was poor when I was still a student. (I am still poor though) I also thought of quitting school. I finished my college as a recipient of the University Scholarship for Student Leaders. I struggled hard everyday of my life. I was born poor and perhaps will always be. I finished my studies despite hunger, lack of financial resources, poor health, and the like. I could remember the days when I had to pretend studying my lessons in the library at lunch because I couldn’t go with my friends and have lunch together. I could still remember the dark nights I survived every night I would walk back home from school. I could still remember attempts of my professors to drop me from their classes. I could still recall when classmates mock at me with my old uniforms. I could still remember when my parents had to wake up very early in the morning to start the day toiling in the farm so I could have money for fare. I know how humiliating it was to be knocking at someone’s door at the wee hour in the morning just to borrow money for my allowance that I felt sorry for my parents. I could feel the tired breath of my parents every time they go to bed after a long hard day after work. All these I could remember were due to poverty. But I only thought that time that no amount poverty could make me give up my dreams. I wanted to be the change my family and I wanted to be. I am here because I believed that one day; it is today, that I am going to make it here. What makes successful and unsuccessful people different? What makes the rich and the poor different? It’s a difference in mind-set and attitude. We poor people cry when the sun does not come out just to realize that at the end of the day we miss the chance to see the beautiful stars at night. Be positive and you will go far in life. Think positive and never give up. This is the Power of Optimism and Positive Attitude.

Everything about me isn’t mine at all. I am greatly indebted to my family, teachers, friends, and relatives, and even to those who I barely know. I finished my studies with the immense support of my parents who actually have toiled to their blood and sweat just for them to make both ends meet. To my parents, thank you so much for bringing me to this world and for tirelessly supporting me in all my undertakings. And to my teachers who have always inspired me to strive harder. Special mention goes my best friend Eric Yulo, for inspiring me to strive harder for my family and for being there in both flips of time. To my friends, Jason, Marilou, and Macky, thank you for not changing a bit and for making me feel you are always there.To my neighbors and relatives who unselfishly shared their resources in times of need. I am your contribution to the world. I am not here for myself; I am here for all of you. I am now who I am today because you have stood with me along the way.

To the graduates, thank you for giving me a chance to share this time with you. I encourage everyone to go to school, get a degree, and make your parents and teachers proud of you in the future. Do this not because you are told but because you aspire to achieve something and everything will fall into place. Young graduates, be the best that you can be. My dear parents don’t give up. Continue to inspire your children to be better individuals that they should be. They are your contribution to this world. Remember that if I made it here, you can even go farther than where I have been.

Before I end, let me share to you my most favorite quotation: Life’s destiny is not a matter of chance but a matter of choice. And the great height of success could only be reached if you make the right choices and if you believe in the power of your dreams, your actions, your failures, and your positive attitude.

Thank you and Congratulations.

What it takes to PASS the Speaking Test: The Ariem Cinco's Dimensions to an Excellent TOEFL-iBT Performance

I suppose you are one among the preponderance of Filipinos migrating to the U.S.A. for whatever purpose it may serve you (don't forget that my shoe size is 7). Despite umpteen of reasons of going to the U.S. of A., this dream will just remain a dream unless you pass TOEFL-iBT.

What is TOEFL-iBT in the first place? It means Test of English as a Foreign Language (Internet-Based Test). This is a test of your communicative competence in English. For most Filipinos, I believe English has never been foreign since it is used as a medium of instruction in classrooms and is actually used as a medium of communication in almost every setting. Yet, the BIG question is that why some test-takers (the Filipino professionals like the Occupational Therapists and Physical Therapists) don’t make it the first shot? Is the test really that difficult? Why do they fail? What would help them PASS?

As an English Trainer for quite sometime now, allow me to share my experiences, my ideas, and my expertise to provide you with some of the needed answers to the questions beforehand.

TOEFL-iBT is challenging but not overwhelmingly difficult. I know that some of you would disagree with me. Again, tests are purposely made challenging otherwise it will be called a quiz. Now, if you think it’s hard, ask yourself what you can possibly do to make this test easy. What have you done so far for you to pass the test? Or, you may have already exerted all the best effort you think you could but to no avail – YOU STILL FAIL. It only means that your best wasn’t good enough (now you’re singing…).  I can not emphasize anymore that you have what it takes to pass the TOEFL. Go and check it yourself. Here are the six dimensions to an excellent performance in TOEFL-iBT.

First is your PROPER MINDSET. What does your mind tell you? Are you going to fail or are you going to pass? Now, if you keep on thinking that you will fail the test because you are more convinced that your English is not good enough then I suggest that you stop and better think of not taking the TOEFL (and forget about your dream of going to the States). However, if you think you are ready to pass, start bracing your thought that you’re going to make it this time around. Make it sure that everything starts right. You should invite positive energies so you wouldn’t be engorged by the negative thoughts. Stop telling yourself that you will fail because you will most likely. If your mind is set to PASSING the test, believe me, nothing will come so overwhelming and difficult. You do not have to pressure yourself. Go with the flow and do your part. It’s your PERSPECTIVE about the test that matters. If you think it’s difficult then it would be difficult. If you think it’s easy, then it would be easy for you. That simple. Do you want it EASY? Just think it is.

Second is your desirable ATTITUDE. No one wants to fail. Yet, not everyone has the right attitude to free themselves from failure. Positive attitude is very important in every endeavor we undertake. Without it, expect FAILURE. Your discipline comes with the attitude. Remember too that your commitment is badly needed. If it is time to study, make it sure that you study. If it is time to listen to the lecture, do not tinker your phones, or anything that would distract you. If you are really determined to pass, you wouldn’t come in late to the class and you wouldn’t take it second to something. If you think you are just weighed down by the FEAR (means False Expectations Appearing Real, thanks to Dr. Dups) that you have created for yourself, never attempt taking the test. Take TOEFL seriously and it will pay off. But never take it too seriously that it would deprive you of your time to enjoy. Have fun while learning.

Third is your motivation. I believe there is a very good reason why you want to pass TOEFL-iBT. This drive alone should be more than an extrinsic motivation for you to take the necessary action to fulfill your goal. If you do this because you were told to do so, forget it. You should pass the test not because you want to please others but because you want to fulfill your dream. Keep yourself on track with the driving force you have within. Your drive to PASS the test must be your guide along the way. Remember, you need more intrinsic motivation than extrinsic motivation. Without the drive, I am sorry…YOU WON’T MAKE IT.

Fourth is your CONFIDENCE not ARROGANCE. I know that TOEFL is not a test of CONFIDENCE but if you don't have it, you won’t make it. Yet, remember that having too much confidence is just the same as having zilch. It is high time to start believing in yourself. It is good enough that you recognize the fact that you have both your weaknesses and the strengths. For me, it is just proper to admit your weakness but wallowing in it is nothing but destructive. If you think you're not that good enough, be humble enough to seek help. Don't be embarrassed to ask for guidance. Those who are proud and arrogant are the ones who most likely fail in the test. Believe me; I have encountered a lot of them. Believe in what you think you are capable of doing. Trust yourself. Trust your trainer. Trust GOD. I am sure you can do it.

Fifth is CONSTANT CORRECT PRACTICE. I am aware that most test-takers are pressured by this mind-boggling test. For you to pass the test, you don’t need to memorize everything. So, why the need to amass all the TOEFL books in the bookstore and collect all the CDs that your hands could get hold of? Familiarize yourself with the nature and content of the test. Learn specific strategies on how you are going to deal with each task. The result of the test is not guaranteed by the length of time you pore over your books and listening to all the CDs you have. The question is do you constantly do correct practice? If not, I am sorry you are wasting your time, your effort, your money. Sadly, you are depriving yourself of the chances to pass the TOEFL. Again, learn specific strategies useful in addressing questions in the test. Practice if those strategies work which I am sure they do. I have tried them. If you wish to know more of them, come and see me.

Finally is your LANGUAGE SKILL and communicative competence. Take note that for you to pass TOEFL you don’t need to have a perfect command of the English Language. Do not pressure yourself trying to perfect your English. Master the basics of it. Strengthen your foundation. TOEFL doesn’t test how complicated your English is, rather how you use your English in your communication. If you can construct a sentence both in written and spoken English, then you have actually the basic requirement for you to pass the test. Just make it sure that you can speak with clarity and logic. If you think your English is not enough, don't worry because this guidebook will help you develop the skill in answering the questions. However, this module will not discuss grammar in details.

Reminiscing the Painful Experience: Rubbing Salt into the Wound

Anyone can make mistakes and fail. However, only idiots persist in their error and dwell in their failure. This statement truly makes a lot of sense to me. In my years of training professionals for TOEFL-iBT, most of the trainees I have handled are re-takers. I mean they have already taken the test and failed several times. Indeed, this must be a depressing reality which I suppose you’re not exempted from.

         

Are you one of them? Don't be embarrassed to admit it unless you’re too proud of yourself despite your failure. Do you think your English skills are good enough but you still FAIL the Speaking Test? That must be a big problem. YOU NEED HELP. Again, you need help. You need to find the reasons why you fail. Do not make lame excuses and alibis. Do not find scapegoats. Be responsible. Be humble. Focus and relax.

I have more questions to ask you. For how long have you been hopping from one review center to another around the metropolis for your TOEFL review? The fact is you have not just attended one review center but two almost until infinity (this I believe is a bit exaggerated), haven’t you? Let’s say not just once but twice and worst is that you have already been attending UNLIMITED reviews. How many of those recommended books and study guidebooks for TOEFL-iBT do you own? How many CD’s of TOEFL-iBT Practice Test have you burned? Pirated or original? This of course does not matter. I just want you to smile. I can see you frowning again.

What has this effort brought you? Wait. Stop. Breathe.  You have done all these but you still FAILED? I am now being sarcastic and arrogant.  If this makes you feel bad then I think you're ready to FAIL again. However, if you accept this with an open arm and heart (not the one which is done in an open heart surgical procedure), then I can say you are ready to embark on a new journey to passing the TOEFL-iBT Speaking Test.  As they say, third time is a charm.

Now, relax and contemplate. If you think I am not making sense, you can leave this module in one corner and go back to your old practice and FAIL. But if you feel this will help you, start reading and practicing soon. Enjoy breaking old habits. Have fun unlearning misconceptions. Have a great time relearning basic skills. Finally, PASS the TOEFL-iBT Speaking Test.

By the way, this module is designed not to offer MIRACLE but workable strategies that you could use to pass the TOEFL-iBT Speaking. Now, I only have this to say: Learn the lessons of experience. 

Macky: An Untold Story

          Destiny is not a matter of chance but it is a matter of choice. Yet no one is ever given a chance to choose the kind of life neither at present nor in the past but in the future. Life is what we make it as the old cliché goes and Lanilo “Macky” Macalla defines it best.  His life depicts a microcosm of an epic that pictures triumph over tribulation.

            Macky, as his friends fondly call him, is no exemption from the thoroughness and struggles in life most children of underprivileged families go through. He was one but an ordinary boy who was raised by his grandmother since his father’s demise when he was a second grader and his mother had to work as a laundrywoman to their neighbors to fend for the family. At a very early age, Macky had to understand how difficult life was, is, and could be. Abstemious may situations had been, yet the seemingly devastating life’s stark realities were nothing but challenges that added vibrance to his colorful and meaningful young life. Being nurtured with love and proper guidance by his family, Macky epitomized a loving youngster whose dream was more than accretion of what he wanted in life but to share more to others what he possibly could. As a schoolboy, he was a symbol of genuine generosity. His sense of compassion for his family, friends, and the people who came along was strongly manifested with simple gestures of giving simple gifts, sharing improvised toys, and spending time socializing with his playmates. Though a poor boy, he found pleasure in sharing little things he had.

            Macky was never a stranger to a surfeit of overwhelming tribulations. Yet, true enough that nothing could defeat a determined heart. Having known his family’s grimace circumstances, he took responsibility as a bread winner though he was the youngest since he was in high school. As a matter of fact, he ventured on selling native delicacies like puto, boche, suman, and the like around his neighborhood and in the school where he attended to help her mother earn a living and to provide for his needs in school. Also, he worked as a house help, and did several odd jobs just to make both ends meet. These experiences never clouded his vision for a better future. His idealism and optimism kept his head above the water. He never doubted the beauty of his own dreams despite dearth; instead his difficult life was his inspiration to move forward and to transform his aspirations into impeccable reality. 

            With the audacity to reach the zenith of his dreams, he sent himself to school with almost nothing but his faith in God and the dream to be the change he and his family wanted. He belied the fact that poverty could impede him from pursuing what seemed to be impossible. Endowed with intellectual prowess, he finished his college as a scholar with no less than flying colors. In fact he was a consistent honor student. His keen sensibility, affable character, and cheerful disposition made him endearing to the heart of many who came to know him. These characters had made him extraordinary in the truest sense of the word. His happy façade and the genuine gregarious disposition had never changed the fact that he was in the midst of quagmire of tumultuous living. As a matter of fact, he managed to keep things in status quo. He managed to attend school while he had to work as a crew in food chains, tended food in school, hosted parties, and did errand jobs just to provide for his family’s need even though it meant self-deprivation. He could forsake his own happiness for the happiness of the people he cares. He was not selfish. Macky was bodily and emotionally worn out with his battle over the chaotic life he got, yet not a myriad of problems could cause his downfall; he never took these as drawback. All these experiences made him a self-made person he is today. Far-fetched this idea was but it was and is really happening.

            Macky is far beyond anything ordinary. He embodies an extraordinary illuminating sense of compassion, passion, humility, and dedication. He has remained steadfast and undaunted in the midst of his life’s struggles. Being socially oriented, he possesses a compelling leadership strength that brings people together. His cordial propensity and his blissful character are indeed captivating and inspiring.

            Today, Macky is a full-fledged elementary school teacher who abandoned opportunities to work abroad for the sake of the children he wants to teach. He finds joy and fulfillment by sacrificing his own happiness for the best of the majority. His dedication in teaching children is immensely commendable.  He has been teaching for a number of years now and was promoted to Teacher II after a year of service. He has attended both regional and national conventions and conferences to upgrade his teaching skills for the benefit of the pupils. Moreover, he has organized conferences and seminars for the benefit of his fellow teachers. Also, he is still an active church lector as he takes God as the center of his life. Despite his responsibilities for his family, he takes the initiative to extend his services to his fellow Tanauanon’s by engaging himself in both non-government and government organizations like the Junior Chamber International –PASAKA where he served as a chapter president. He takes pride in his strong involvement in the community as a leader though he comes from a poor family. And being a fun-loving person, he has established “Macky’s World of Fun” which depicts his buoyant character.

            Finally, Macky is an epitome of real success. He is not rich yet but he takes pride in sharing what he could best offer. He serves as an inspiration to many who dream big dreams. He motivates people to strive hard in their lives to change for the better. Everything wouldn’t have been possible without his being an optimist and a happy person. His life is truly worthy of emulation in every sense of the word. An oak tree from little acorn grows, indeed.

Manny Pacquiao and the RH BILL

http://ph.news.yahoo.com/manny-pacquiao-parents-used-condom-wouldnt-now-20110327-193500-876.html

Manny Pacquiao: If my parents used a condom, I wouldn't be here now

-         I firmly refute Honorable Manny Pacquiao’s statement. This utterance only shows how much importance this honorable lawmaker has for himself. Also, I believe that this is at a certain point insensitive and a dim-wit statement. Such claim only proves that he isn’t aware of the sufferings of those people especially children who are agonizing over the miseries of their lives being victims of irresponsible parenting, unjust society, etc. Do you think Congressman Manny; you would have the same stand if only you didn’t have any luck to be rich and famous? The issue is not about you, it’s about a number of lives totally different from yours.

"Bilang ama, ayoko po na turuan ang aking mga anak ng kalaswaan”

-          Honorable Congressman Pacquiao, do you really understand what you say? What’s lewd about the RH Bill? I am afraid you don’t walk your talk. I will not apologize but I think you don’t have the credibility to even speak on this matter because I am sure you yourself is a condom user… This maybe is a personal question but when was the last time you used condom? What about the issues about your womanizing spree? Be a good example and I believe people will follow you.

Pacquiao also maintained that eradicating poverty, not passing the RH Bill, is the solution to poverty in the Philippines. 

-         Honorable Congressman, what workable interventions would you suggest so that poverty in our country can be eradicated ? I am not hopeless but eradication of poverty is a wishful thinking. I would agree with you Honorable Congressman if you used the word "alleviate" poverty at least.

"Sa aking paniniwala, labag po ito sa kautusan ng Panginoon”

-          I believe that at some points the bill is quite in contradictory with the teaching of the Bible which says “go to the world and multiply.” However, I suggest that you study the issue more intently so you’d understand where the PRO-RH BILL are coming from. Why do you think it is against the teachings of God? Can you please justify your claim? 

Manny Pacquiao's English

            English is a universal language. It is widely spoken in many countries around the world in many different circumstances, most especially in business and other academic setting. To further emphasize the great reach of the English language, it has engulfed the Filipinos since it was introduced by the Americans to be part of our educational system being one of the official languages used as a medium of instruction in classrooms. Fortunately, being exposed to the language and learning it at an early age affords us a plethora of advantages; one of which is our being able to communicate with the world. 

            A number of Filipinos take pride in their English skills. However, the belief about the Filipinos superiority in English among other Asian neighboring countries and non-English speaking countries is on the brink of becoming a myth. In my opinion, English in the Philippines has greatly deteriorated. Why do  I say so? I have been an English Trainer to both professionals and paraprofessionals alike. And most of the professionals I have handled in my classes have the English communication skills which range from high beginner to high intermediate. This scenario is quite unlikely but the sad truth.

            To rub more salt into the wound, some academicians, politicians, businessmen, lawyers, accountants, and even some journalists have undeniably embarked on the use of second-rate English for whatever reason it serves them. Others admittedly profess their inferiority with regards to the use of the language while others take pride despite the obvious diffidence. Our very own world boxing champ and lawmaker Manny Pacquiao is definitely not an exemption.

            Recently, I have read an article entitled “Manny Pacquiao slams grammar critics on Twitter” dated Monday, March 21, 2011 8:36 AM PHT. This has caught my attention especially that many words have been said already about the issue. But before I would go into the different comments, I would like to share my two cents about this matter.

            Manny Pacquiao is an icon not only to the Filipinos but to the whole world (please don’t call me exaggerated especially those who are against him) so it is expected of him to speak in a language that is understood by people from different linguistic orientation and background. In the said article, the boxing champ says that “it doesn’t matter of the grammar as long they understand the message thanks.” While to a certain extent I agree with his statement, I am more inclined to refute such claim. Why do I agree? It is because we have the so called local errors which do not necessarily affect the meaning of the sentence. For example, “Sheryl have a car.” The sentence still expresses clear meaning despite the obvious ungrammatical structure of the sentence should we consider the basic rule in subject-verb agreement.

            Notwithstanding, one reason why I differ with his statement is that communication requires utmost clarity in meaning and that can only be established if the sentence is well-structured. This means that the sentence is free from fossilized errors in syntax and of course semantics. Clarity in meaning is universal and it should not be confined to only one cultural context.  The whole world listening to you should understand you. Hence, I am steadfast with my claim that correctness in grammar is very important.

            Furthermore, one should not only be concerned about his grammar. What other aspects should an individual consider to improve his English communication skills?

           

a.    Pronunciation and Global comprehensibility. An individual should make sure that his pronunciation is clear and that L1 interferences should not affect the clarity of speech nor pose any difficulty to the listener. However, this doesn’t mean that a person should sound like a native speaker.

b.    Language Range and Lexical Accuracy. This means that for an individual to communicate well, he must consider to use an array of grammatical structures (from simple to complex structures) accurately and correctly. Grammar counts but minor errors in structure which do not obscure meaning should never be taken a big issue.

c.    Interactive Ability and Strategic Competency.  An individual should not only possess the confidence in speaking the language in which Manny Pacquiao is oozing with. For an individual to be able to communicate well, he must have the ability to control the interaction. Also, he should know when to take turns. In addition, he should have the ability to repair miscommunication instantly. Finally, he should manifest excellent cultural understanding.

d.    Discourse Capability. An individual should exude an excellent awareness of the discourse nature of the spoken texts. His speech must always be clear, logical and to the point. Moreover, he is able to build effectively on what has been said.  He must be able to predict moves and take control of the interaction. He must think and react in English.

            However, this issue has escalated to a more complicated thread of argument-counterargument. And worst, some of the points laid are striking below the belt? This led me to raise a question: Since when has the Philippines been a sanctuary of egocentric blabbermouths? Conversely, I commend those who post sensible comments.

            As far as my understanding is concerned, some argue that since Pacquiao has brought honor to the country being a boxing champion, he is already exempted from negative criticisms. I believe that this is a cynical understanding of the real essence of criticisms. An individual regardless of his social status is always subject to either positive or negative criticisms. For an icon like Pacquiao himself, his fame does not exempt him from such disparagement.   An act of heroism does not exempt one from criticism because being a hero is not tantamount to being perfect. However, everyone should be reminded that whenever we have some message to put across, it is always wise not to attack on a personal level. Instead, stay on the issue not on the person who we want to criticize. I mean freedom of expression means responsible expression.

            On the other hand, before the supporters of Pacquiao incite a fist fight, I think it is also wise to look into reasons why he is being criticized. Why is there such a high expectation in Manny to speak English correctly if not fluently and perfectly? It is my resolve that Congressman Manny Pacquaio’s English is criticized because of the following reasons:

First, he is a world icon. He is expected to speak a global language correctly so he will be understood not only by the Filipino community but also by the members of the international community. It is imperative that his being an iconic figure makes him an ambassador of the Filipino people to the world and his being able to speak English plays a pivotal role to carry out such responsibility without being much dependent on translators.

Second, he has travelled to and stayed in English speaking countries and so he is expected to have mastered the language even without formal training. I believe that immersion is a great avenue for one to learn faster.

Third, he deals with foreigners most of the time and his immediate circle of support is composed of English speaking individuals like his promoter, coach, and sometimes sparring mates. This means that the need to speak the language is high and it should be one of his motivations to learn more and polish his skills.

Last, he is now a lawmaker. A lawmaker himself should be adept in the language spoken within the four walls of his respected office. Otherwise, his capacity to create laws will be questioned.

            Finally, should I rate Rep. Manny Pacquiao’s English based on the article which can be found through URL: http://ph.news.yahoo.com/manny-pacquiao-slams-grammar-critics-twitter-20110320-173600-320.html, I would rate him 2.5 out of 5.0.